PURPOSES in LIFE

my head in mess..

totally screwed up..

not knowing how to start even to step further

life is not easy

but how we tackle it that makes it easy

plus if Allah gives us His bless

its easier to say things than make it done

but expressing it somehow make me feel a bit relieve

but REMEMBER...

the PURPOSES of LIFE

is first as a worshiper as what mentioned in ad-Dzariyat, 51 verse 56;

وَمَا خَلَقْتُ الْجِنَّ وَالْإِنْسَ إِلَّا لِيَعْبُدُونِ

And I (Allâh) created not the jinns and humans except they should worship Me (Alone).

and second as the caliph of Allah, Al-Baqarah verse 30;

وَإِذْ قَالَ رَبُّكَ لِلْمَلَائِكَةِ إِنِّي جَاعِلٌ فِي الْأَرْضِ خَلِيفَةً قَالُوا أَتَجْعَلُ فِيهَا مَنْ يُفْسِدُ فِيهَا وَيَسْفِكُ الدِّمَاءَ وَنَحْنُ نُسَبِّحُ بِحَمْدِكَ وَنُقَدِّسُ لَكَ قَالَ إِنِّي أَعْلَمُ مَا لَا تَعْلَمُونَ

And (remember) when your Lord said to the angels: "Verily, I am going to place (mankind) generations after generations on earth." They said: "Will You place therein those who will make mischief therein and shed blood, - while we glorify You with praises and thanks (Exalted be You above all that they associate with You as partners) and sanctify You." He (Allâh) said: "I know that which you do not know."

is't?? WHATEVER YOU WANT IT TO BE?? it may be right to some extend but then it's still base on the above ayah..so that we'll never be astray insyaAllah..for Allah's bless aye..plus, caliph is a broad meaning, be a leader for our own self and if we do have the power and strength to lead others, then please do so..so that insyaAllah we will always be in the righteous path...

Lesson 2

be a RESPONSIBLE STUDENT as well as the CHILD of your parents

n the most important thing is to be a responsible and pious WORSHIPER

love Allah the MOST..PLEASE!!!

lesson 1

"to think, act and behave as a Muslim not vice versa"

"to think, act and behave as a human not like an animal"

"to think, act and behave like a houseman not a medical student"

the GIRL who LEAPT through TIME

The Girl Who Leapt Through Time, originally titled Toki o Kakeru Shōjo (時をかける少女^?, lit.

Kazuko Yoshiyama, a third-year middle school student, is cleaning the school science lab with her classmates, Kazuo Fukamachi and Gorō Asakura, when she smells a lavender-like scent and faints. After three days, strange events transpire around Kazuko, including the burning of Gorō's house after an earthquake. The next morning, at the exact moment of a car accident, Kazuko is transported 24 hours into the past.

She relives the day and relates her strange experience to Kazuo and Gorō. They don't believe her at first, but they are convinced when she accurately predicts the earthquake and ensuing fire. Fukushima, their science teacher, explains Kazuko's new ability as "teleportation" and "time-leap". To solve the riddle of her power she must leap back four days.

Finally, Kazuko's determination enables her to make the leap. Back in the science room she meets a mysterious man who has assumed her friend Kazuo's identity. He is really "Ken Sogoru", a time-traveler from AD 2660. His intersection with the girl's life is the accidental effect of a "time-leaping" drug. Ken remains for a month and Kazuko falls in love with him. When he leaves, he erases all memories of himself from everyone he has met, including Kazuko. As the book ends Kazuko has the faint memory of somebody promising to meet her again every time she smells lavender.

a story that convey the message of the importance of not to misuse the gift/opportunity given for our own benefits while troubling others

ANGER...

it's easier to say that " naa, i'm not angry anymore +_+" but deep within there may be some anger left..it doesn't feel good aye whenever we're mad at someone..the feeling kinda make our chest become tight and somehow make us to breath deeper..emm

don't get mad..naa who's in this world who'll never get angry..i know someone who hardly get mad..our lovely Prophet Rasulullah s.a.w..he's great aye..his patience, warmth, love ans passion upon human is remarkable..that's what make others to LOVE him +_+

so, in conclusion, try to have all the criteria that the Prophet has..we may not be as perfect as him, but we may be the person with those positive auras aye +_+

chaiyok ct!!!! keep your head down..down to the earth..you're way beyond capacity to LIVE WELL without ALLAH's BLESS..so LIVE WELL to GAIN HIS BLESS..so that you'll be wayyy to far to reach the HELL, gambattene!!

'Surely there is in the body, a small piece of flesh; if it is good, the whole body is good, and if it is corrupted, the whole body is corrupted; and that is surely the heart/soul ♥ '

(Al- Bukhari)

LIVE to the FULLEST

last night, i was having my circle of LIFE..i don't wanna go at first, but i make up my mind that i have to go and alhamdulillah, i love being there and thank to Allah for making up my mind and give me the determination to go +_+

there were only 4 of us..our naqibah, my 2 friends and me..the others were unable to come as they have their own commitment going for oncall and there's one who went back to her husband.

after opening the session with al-Fatihah we were reciting the Quran, SUrah Luqman chapter 31, verses 1 to 34..we discussed more on verse 20 onward.. there's few ayah that caught my attention

first..verse 22

وَمَنْ يُسْلِمْ وَجْهَهُ إِلَى اللَّهِ وَهُوَ مُحْسِنٌ فَقَدِ اسْتَمْسَكَ بِالْعُرْوَةِ الْوُثْقَى وَإِلَى اللَّهِ عَاقِبَةُ الْأُمُورِ

And whosoever submits his face (himself) to Allâh [i.e.(follows Allâh's Religion of Islâmic Monotheism), worships Allâh (Alone) with sincere Faith in the (1) Oneness of His Lordship,(2) Oneness of His worship, and (3) Oneness of His Names and Qualities], while he is a Muhsin (good­doer i.e. performs good deeds totally for Allâh's sake without any show-off or to gain praise or fame etc. and does them in accordance with theSunnah of Allâh's Messenger Muhammad SAW), then he has grasped the most trustworthy hand­hold [Lâ ilâha ill-Allâh (none has the right to be worshipped but Allâh)]. And to Allâh return all matters for decision.

from the above ayah, we know that our job is to differentiate the good from the bad and is our responsibility to do good deeds. and after all the hardships, our next job is to rely and depends on Allah or what we usually called as TAWAKKAL..and the next step is to accept whatever outcomes either good or vice versa..or people usually called as REDHA..said is easier than done aite..yup that's right..but to note that how meaningful and sweet life would be by depending and hoping upon Him is uncountable..to WORK extra vaganza, to TAWAKAL and REDHA..and plus to PRAY very hard..

the next ayah that opened my eyes is verse 27

وَلَوْ أَنَّمَا فِي الْأَرْضِ مِنْ شَجَرَةٍ أَقْلَامٌ وَالْبَحْرُ يَمُدُّهُ مِنْ بَعْدِهِ سَبْعَةُ أَبْحُرٍ مَا نَفِدَتْ كَلِمَاتُ اللَّهِ إِنَّ اللَّهَ عَزِيزٌ حَكِيمٌ

And if all the trees on the earth were pens and the sea (were ink wherewith to write), with seven seas behind it to add to its (supply), yet the Words of Allâh would not be exhausted. Verily, Allâh is All­Mighty, AllWise.

this ayah really made me realize that how little knowledge that occupy my tremendous pc BRAIN..how much i lack in terms of knowledge..how much i envy those previous Islamic scholars who able to master in various scope of knowledge..and at the same time, being the best person who LOVES and WORSHIPS Allah..as we're given the same 24 HOURS, what were their recipes of success..one thing that they all have in similarities were BLESSING FROM ALLAH..

alFARABI @ alpharabius

give his contribution in alchemy, philosophy, music, physics and psychology and others

ibnu sina @ avicenna

philosophy, medicine, poetry, psychology and chemistry and others

khawarizmi

contribution in algebra, arithmetic, astronomy, trigonometry, geography and others

there are many more..so fellows, do our best and live to the fullest base on Quran and sunnah..pray to Allah for our tranquility, happiness, success and bless..insyaALlah

HOPE and TRUST

i walked alone this afternoon after having my lunch..passing across the physio department and the hall to my hostel..as i was walking, some kind of feeling hit through my soul..the feeling of warmth and happiness..

without i realize, I'm happy for being here for almost 5 years..there may be no much different from years to years but somehow i love the feeling of being here..

to get up early in the morning, to struggle hard in order to wake up successfully though sometimes i do wanna continue to sleep and skip the round..huu..bad thought aye..haha..to spend time with friends during our study time..and to stay up late at the a&e treating those in need..to jog along with some friends during the evening..and much more..it was so fascinating though there were times when things went wrong..

I'm thinking of enjoying my life without hesitation and negative thought..i don't wanna regret later on..but the fact that all the bad thought keep on running through is undeniable..but i do wanna proceed

o Allah please help me..help me to keep on trying..help to keep on believing..help me to keep on hoping for the best..and help me to keep on living...

cause i know Allah is gracious and merciful and none others for me to rely on, Ar-Ra'd, 13:30..

كَذَلِكَ أَرْسَلْنَاكَ فِي أُمَّةٍ قَدْ خَلَتْ مِنْ قَبْلِهَا أُمَمٌ لِتَتْلُوَ عَلَيْهِمُ الَّذِي أَوْحَيْنَا إِلَيْكَ وَهُمْ يَكْفُرُونَ بِالرَّحْمَنِ قُلْ هُوَ رَبِّي لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا هُوَ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ وَإِلَيْهِ مَتَابِ

Thus have We sent you (O Muhammad SAW) to a community before whom other communities have passed away, in order that you might recite unto them what We have inspired to you, while they disbelieve in the Most Beneficent (Allâh) Say: "He is my Lord! Lâ ilâha illâ Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He)! In Him is my trust, and to Him will be my return with repentance."

and i did know that once Allah helps me there's none who can overtake my strong will to succeed and proceed...Ali imran, 3:160:

إِنْ يَنْصُرْكُمُ اللَّهُ فَلَا غَالِبَ لَكُمْ وَإِنْ يَخْذُلْكُمْ فَمَنْ ذَا الَّذِي يَنْصُرُكُمْ مِنْ بَعْدِهِ وَعَلَى اللَّهِ فَلْيَتَوَكَّلِ الْمُؤْمِنُونَ

If Allâh helps you, none can overcome you; and if He forsakes you, who is there after Him that can help you? And in Allâh (Alone) let believers put their trust.

but we have to remember that

the degree to which a person is helped and aided by Allah depends on the degree of his intention, drive, aim and hopes. Help from Allah comes to people in proportion to their drive, intention, hopes and fears and failure comes to them in like manner"

by Ibn Al-Qayyim

summer wars

it' a 2009 Japanese animated science fictionromance film directed by Mamoru Hosoda, animated by Madhouse and distributed by Warner Bros. Pictures

The film tells the story of Kenji Koiso, a timid eleventh-grade math genius who is taken to Ueda by twelfth-grade student Natsuki Shinohara to celebrate her great-grandmother's 90th birthday. However, he is falsely implicated in the hacking of a virtual world by an artificial intelligence. Kenji must repair the damage done to the virtual world and he must find a way to stop the artificial intelligence from causing any further damage.

i love to watch this anime..fascinating, funny and adventurous.. among the values that i learnt from this anime are:

1- being someone who is intelligent is one of the tremendous gift..so use it properly for the good of others and a way to help people..

2- love our family and respect the elders as they probably know better than us..

3- to be responsible in whatever mistakes that we do and try our best to make it right

4- don't ever give and keep on trying cause we may find the solution..pray hard to God +_+

....

i need strength..exam just around the corner..15 weeks left for us to polish our skill and knowledge..ya it's an ample of time but out of it, how much quality time that we really spend for study..

ya Allah takut ya Allah...please help me..

hafalan shalat delisa

assalamualaikum..i just watched HAFALAN SHALAT DELISA..i cried since it was a sad story though it has many good values..

among the values that i learnt from the movie are:

(1) to have pure intention in whatever task we're doing, solat, fasting, learning, and even when we're helping others..don't do something to gain benefit or present or even praise

(2) to appreciate the family as we never know how much time left for us to spend with them..have we ever say to them that we love them or do we ever have bad thought about them

(3) to be strong in whatever situation that we're dealing with..to be brave to endure all the hardships and to always pray to Allah for His assistance and help

(4) to note that there're other people who live in poverty..so appreciate whatever fortunes given by Allah and say Alhamdulillah

i love Delisa's character..she is very strong, indeed with strong heart and determination..she knows her sisters as well as her mother will no longer be with her, yet, she still able to give her best smiles and to keep on living..though she lost her leg in the tsunami she is very happy as the other leg still able to move..besides, she keep on memorizing all the prayers in order to pass the test..

S.L.E

one is diagnosed to have SLE in an appropriate clinical setting if 4 or more out of 11 criteria are present

A - arthritis involving 2 or more joints (swelling, tender or effusion)

R - renal disorder (1) proteinuria >3g/d, patient may develop generalized oedema or passing out bubbled urine (2) cellular cast, red cell, granular or mixed. both (1) & (2) detected by urinalysis

A - ANA antibodies detected from blood test

S - serositis (1) pleuritis (2) pericarditis

H - heamatological disorder (1) hemolytic anemia (2) thrombocytopenia (3) leukopenia (4) lymphopenia

P - photosensitivity

O - oral ulcer

I - immunological disorder (1) antiDSDNA (2) antiSM (3) anti phospholipid syndrome <coagulopathy - bleeding tendency, livedo reticularis, obstetric - miscarriage, thrombocytopenia - bleeding tendency>

N - neurological disorder (1) seizures (2) psychosis

M - malar rash (fixed reddish, flat or raised rash over malar eminence, nasolabial fold spared)

D - discoid rash (reddish raised patches with adherent keratotic scales & follicular pludging with or without atrophic scarring)

multiple MYELOMA

it's a malignant blood disorder involving the plasma cell derived from B cells that produce immunoglobulin (G,A,E,D,M)..usually many different plasma cells will produce different Ig, but in myeloma, single clone of plasma cell is producing identical Ig seen as monoclonal band or paraprotein, on serum or urine..but most of the Ig will deposit at bone marrow and stimulate cytokines release to induce osteoclast activity (bone turnover), therefore patient can complaint of bone pain or easily fracture as well as symptoms of hypercalcemia..

the bone marrow may be suppressed by the deposits and patient may presented with anemia or pancytopenia (reduction in all types of blood cell, RBCs, white cells as well as platelets)..other than that deposition of the paraprotein at kidney may lead to kindey impairment..

plus the defect immunoglobulin may not able to protect our body as the normal one from infection and patient may develop recurrent bacterial infection.

so to diagnose, 2 out of these 3 criterias must be fulfilled

1- increase malignant plasma cell in bone marrow (detection through bone marrow aspiration)

2- serum and/or urine paraprotein (detection through serm & urine electrophoresis)

3- skeletal lesion (detection through X-rays)

and other investigation will be ordered base on presentation..the usual treatment is chemotherapy..but the supportive therapy is aimed for acute management in order to prevent further kidney damage, further deterioration of the bones as well as pain management..

usually the patient die due to renal impairment or infection

median survival rate : 3-4 years as stated in the book..but honestly only God knows..doctors are human, we never know how successful or failure the treatment is..but our job is to do the best for the patient and to suggest them the most beneficial treatment based on study (evidence based medicine)

FLUSHING of the FACE

I met a teacher today..she's pretty warmth and welcoming..she looks healthy and happy..she was admitted due to generalized oedema for the past 3 weeks time, worsening during morning where she noticed puffiness over the face especially on left side and over the evening where she need to drag her feet in order to walk..she also complaint of passing out frothy urine for the past 2 weeks which made her more worried as whenever she pass out it bubbling out..it's not usual right..she told me that she need to ask permission from the headmaster to wear slipper as the swollen feet could not fit the shoes..she became easily dyspnoiec especially during exertion, plus she need to rest a bit before the lecture

when i asked her more, she claimed that she has been experiencing red flush over the cheeks, multiple joint pain, sensitivity to light for the past one year..have you got any idea of what she might be having?? i'm thinking of SLE and currently complicated with nephrotic syndrome

in the ward, doctor ordered her to collect the 24H urine for 24H urine protein and she was on strict nephrotic chart. she told me that since admission, she felt better as she frequently urinate as she took diuretic (frusemide), alhamdulillah the oedema slowly subsided..doctor planned for renal biopsy..and serial blood investigations has been sent (dsDNA, ANA, C3 C4) in order to confirm the diagnosis..

one thing i learn today is the importance of taking a good care of our own body..cause we might seem healthy but we may not know what's happening within..i know that some diseases is idiopathic..but to have thought that how bad my life is worried me most @..@, i stop to jog for almost 1 and half years, hailooo!! how am i going to look like when i'm 4os or 50s and even 60s..if possible i don't wanna lie on the hospital bed being cachexic hoping for others to look over me..i wanna be healthy for the rest of my life insyaAllah..o Allah please give me strength to live healthier..amin...

may ALLAH BLESS the GRANNY

homework is coming through and through..there's so much things to be covered and recalled within this 5 weeks..the first week will come to its end after tomorrow, so there's 4 weeks remaining..

medical posting..i love this posting..cause there's so many things about the posting..plus i hope that i can pursue my career in this field..

i clerked a granny this morning, she came due to shortness of breath associated with fever and productive greenish cough..i'd no intention to talk to her actually, but incidentally, i just go near to this granny with known history of obstructive lung disease on duo MDI and start talking to her..she's very warmth, friendly and cute +_+ she looked tachypnoiec and tired..she came to the hospital as she could not sleep due to worsening SOB..she was diagnosed to have AECOPD secondary to CAP base on history, physical examination, investigation as well as chest x-ray findings..

she was blessed alhamdulillah as she able to raised children whom in return grab the chance to show their gratitude by taking care of the parents..they did care of both the parents in the in need..may Allah bless them all insyaALlah..i was not worried for the psychosocial part about this granny as she did has good family support..

the thing that worry me most is her habit to smoke..i know it's not her fault as she grew in a time where they chew a lot of sireh and smoke their own planted tobacco..but it's my responsibility to educate her the about her illness and support her to stop her habit..

COPD is a chronic illness and as a keep on smoking, one may develop many other complications like cor-pulmonale, polycythemia, respiratory failure as well as lung cancer..plus tobacco alone has been a risk factor to many chronic diseases like hypertension, diabetes, ischemic heart disease and in the end developed organ failures..

and one important thing that might determine the frequency of attack and good quality of life is the compliance..the compliance on the dose of the MDI as well as good MDI technique..

o Allah give her the strength to keep on living until the day when she'll be called home..amen..

KAHWIN dan ISLAM

regards...ustazah maznah daud

Membuat keputusan untuk berkahwin bukanlah suatu perkara yang mudah. Perkahwinan bererti memasuki suatu alam yang berlainan sama sekali dengan alam yang pernah dilalui sebelumnya, bak kata Tan Sri S M Salim dalam salah satu lagunya, ‘dulu lain sekarang lain, dulu bujang sekarang dah kahwin’.

Setiap pasangan yang berkahwin pastinya mengharapkan perkahwinan itu kekal bahagia buat selama-lamanya. Ramai yang berjaya. Namun tidak kurang pula yang kecewa.

Al-Ustaz Jasim Muhammad al-Mutawwa’, bekas kadi ahwal syakhsiyyah di Kuwait yang kini aktif mengadakan program-program berbentuk bimbingan kekeluargaan, berdasarkan pengalaman dan pengamatannya ketika mengendalikan kes-kes berkaitan dengan masalah rumahtangga menyimpulkan antara sebab berlakunya keretakan dan kegagalan dalam perkahwinan adalah kurang taaruf atau tidak mengenali antara satu sama lain dengan mendalam sebelum berkahwin.

Taaruf yang mendalam atau mengenali bakal teman hidup sebelum melangsungkan perkahwinan sangat penting demi menjamin kesejahteraan dan keseimbangan dalam menjalani kehidupan berumahtangga. Ini tidak bermakna pasangan mesti melalui alam percintaan sebelum berkahwin, kerap bertemu dan berhubung melalui panggilan telefon, sms, chating dan sebagainya.

Percintaan sebelum berkahwin seperti yang dilakukan oleh segolongan masyarakat dan ditonjolkan dalam segala macam media sebagai suatu kemestian, suatu dunia yang penuh dengan keindahan dan keseronokan adalah sebenarnya penipuan belaka. Alam percintaan tidak mendedahkan hakikat diri yang sebenarnya. Masing-masing berusaha menunjukkan yang terbaik sahaja di hadapan pasangannya. Setelah berkahwin barulah terbongkar segala rahsia, segala perangai dan sikap buruk yang selama ini disembunyikan.

Untuk mengenali calon pasangan hidup anda dengan mendalam, al-Ustaz Jasim Muhammad al-Mutawwa’ mencadangkan agar anda mengajukan 10 soalan. Soalan-soalan ini boleh diajukan secara langsung semasa sesi taaruf, atau melalui orang tengah. Jika calon memilih untuk bertemu, melihat dan berkenalan pastikan pertemuan itu tidak dilakukan secara berdua-duaan di tempat suci dan terpencil. Jangan cemari niat yang suci dengan melanggari perintah Allah dan Rasul. Jangan relakan syaitan menjadi orang ketiga di antara anda dengan si dia.

10 soalan itu adalah:

1. Apakah wawasan hidupnya?
Setiap orang mempunyai wawasan dan cita-cita yang ingin dicapai dalam hidupnya. Inilah yang perlu anda ketahui mengenai bakal pasangan hidup anda. Sekiranya anda dan dia mempunyai wawasan dan matlamat hidup yang sama maka perselisihan dalam rumahtangga akan berkurangan.

2. Bagaimanakah kefahamannya mengenai konsep perkahwinan?
Kefahaman serta tasawur yang jelas mengenai perkahwinan amat penting. Sekiranya kedua-dua pihak mempunyai kefahaman yang berbeza, umpamanya satu pihak menganggap perkahwinan hanya sekadar memenuhi tuntutan nafsu semata-mata, sedang satu pihak lagi memandang sebagai satu ibadah, sudah semestinya rumahtangga yang bakal dibina tidak akan aman daripada perselisihan dan pergaduhan.

3. Apakah sifat-sifat yang digemari dan tidak digemarinya?
Adalah penting bagi setiap pasangan mengetahui kegemaran pasangannya, apa yang disukai dan tidak disukainya kerana kadang-kadang perselisihan berlaku disebabkan kelainan kegemaran dan citarasa. Sekiranya kegemaran setiap pihak diketahui terlebih awal mungkin perselisihan dapat dielakkan.

4. Apakah pandangannya mengenai anak pada tahun pertama perkahwinan?
Setiap orang mempunyai pandangan yang berbeza mengenai masa yang sesuai untuk menimang cahaya mata. Sekiranya satu pihak belum bersedia sedang pihak yang satu lagi sudah tidak sabar untuk bergelar ibu atau ayah, pastilah kedua-dua pihak akan berasa tertekan dan perhubungan akan jadi tegang.

5. Adakah dia mempunyai masalah kesihatan atau kecacatan?
Masalah kesihatan yang kronik atau kecacatan semula jadi pada anggota badan tidak wajar disembunyikan. Mengetahui adanya penyakit atau kecacatan tertentu akan mempengaruhi keputusan yang bakal diambil. Menyembunyikan penyakit yang kronik atau kecacatan yang mengaibkan boleh dianggap sebagai satu penipuan.

6. Adakah dia seorang yang suka bergaul?
Sesetengah orang suka bergaul dengan pelbagai lapisan masyarakat, mempunyai kawan dan kenalan di merata-rata tempat. Sesetengah yang lain pula suka menyendiri, tidak pandai berkawan dan sukar didampingi. Orang macam mana yang anda cari?

7. Bagaimana hubungannya dengan ahli keluarganya?
Perkahwian bukan sekadar aqad yang mempertemukan antara dua jiwa. Sebaliknya perkahwinan merupakan hubungan kemasyarakatan yang mencantumkan antara dua keluarga atau lebih. Oleh itu bakal tunangan harus tahu status keluarga serta hubungan mereka antara satu sama lain. Hubungan kekeluargaan juga sedikit sebanyak menggambarkan keperibadian seseorang.

8. Apakah kegemarannya dan bagaimana dia mengisi waktu lapangnya?
Kegemaran serta cara seseorang memenuhi masa lapangnya juga memberi gambaran tentang wawasan serta cita-citanya dalam hidup ini.

9. Adakah dia aktif dalam mana-mana pertubuhan bukan kerajaan (NGO) atau pertubuhan kebajikan?
Keaktifan dalam persatuan kebajikan atau pertubuhan sukarela menggambarkan dia bukan seorang yang sombong dan mementingkan diri. Orang yang hidupnya sekadar untuk memenuhi cita-cita dan wawasan peribadi semata-mata sebenarnya hidup dalam dunia yang sempit dan mati sebagai insan yang kerdil. Tetapi orang yang hidup dalam perjuangan akan hidup sebagai insan yang hebat dan apabila dia mati namanya akan dikenang zaman-berzaman.

10. Apakah pandangannya sekiranya ibu bapa masuk campur dalam urusan peribadi atau urusan rumahtangga mereka?
Setengah orang menganggap rumahtangga adalah masalah peribadi yang terlalu khusus. Tiada seorang pun yang boleh masuk campur walaupun ibu bapa sendiri. Hal ini sangat penting diketahui oleh setiap orang yang akan memasuki gerbang perkahwinan. Apakah pandangan bakal pasangan hidupnya. Adakah dia termasuk dalam golongan di atas atau sebaliknya seorang yang terlalu bergantung kepada kedua-dua ibu bapanya walaupun telah berkeluarga?

Apabila anda telah mendapat jawapan yang bersesuaian dengan apa yang dicari, maka teruskanlah hasrat anda untuk melamarnya. Begitu juga halnya dengan pihak yang dilamar. Pastikan anda mengenali jejaka yang melamar itu dengan mengajukannya 10 soalan di atas.

my FAMILY

today, after a long period being in district, i got the opportunity to join my "CIRCLE OF HAPPINESS". our meeting was done at one my friend's room..

and after these 5 years, i really feel excited to join my CIRCLE..it's so warmth, it's full of love and we really care of each other..

our big sis is now on postpartum rest..she delivered her third son about a month ago..i joined her since last year when the previous sis went to KL..she cares about us and i know that she loves us..

there are 7 of us including the elder sis..our leader is a person who loves coffee so much. she'll drink it everyday or else she'll be very anxious..she loves her parents so much and despite all the life difficulties, she's very strong and persistent to success. plus, she's very creative and loves to make videos..

then the next person on the list is one of those people that i care most..she's very happy, a very disciplined person..she's one of those who loves anime and we did share some our favorite anime..she can lead and did a great job when she once been posted as our vice leader..

there's a person in the CIRCLE who just get married..she's a very happy go lucky person who loves to smile..the family was quite unique since they live independently among the siblings while the parents are quite far..she's not in the CIRCLE today as she went back to hes husband house..

then a sis who is one year older than me who is so cute..the way she speaks is also cute as the way she appear..she's very calm and very matured despite of her cute appearance..since she's the eldest, she's been like a sister to me..

there's one of us who's also share the same interest as i'm..animeee!!! huhu..i dunno how to say but i think she's cute too..the way she smiles and speaks may subside the anger that one has..she loves naruto the way i'am plus we love baek dong su..huhu

and the youngest among us is the cutest ever..she's not a spoiled kid but she's cute the way she is..she's very happy and very energetic..she loves to deliver knowledge to others and very active among us all..i know that she's now in a critical situation and may be very depressive..my dear, don't be sad cause we love you so much..we care about you and we're here to share your burden..be strong and have faith in Allah that He'll gives you strength and bless..may you get whatever you hope for insyaAllah

and a sister who once join our CIRCLE, who'll be a teacher soon..we're happy to have you in our CIRCLE..though we might not know you better but the ukhwah will be forever..i wish you all the best and may Allah bless you in your work..

i love my CIRCLE and despite all the bad thought that runs through, i hope that i'll always be in this CIRCLE..

the CIRCLE of love, warmth, happiness, bless and tranquility...