keep it COLD within your SOUL??

"who on earth she thinks she is..huh!! i hate her!!"

anger..

is't good to be angry?? it's normal to be angry right..but don't make it as a ritual..it won't solve anything but only KEEP IT COLD WITHIN YOUR SOUL...

but what is recommended in Islam is for us to be patient..have you ever come across the Quranic verse Fussilat 41:34

وَلَا تَسْتَوِي الْحَسَنَةُ وَلَا السَّيِّئَةُ ادْفَعْ بِالَّتِي هِيَ أَحْسَنُ فَإِذَا الَّذِي بَيْنَكَ وَبَيْنَهُ عَدَاوَةٌ كَأَنَّهُ وَلِيٌّ حَمِيمٌ

The good deed and the evil deed cannot be equal. Repel (the evil) with one which is better (i.e. Allâh ordered the faithful believers to be patient at the time of anger, and to excuse those who treat them badly), then verily! he, between whom and you there was enmity, (will become) as though he was a close friend.

Allah loves those who are patience..so be patient..i know it's easier said than to be done aite..to be honest i just felt very angry just a few moments ago..it was not her mistakes, it was mine..i'm not treating her well and be patient enough..but i gotto admit though not directly to her, that i was wrong..i have to do something..to give a lesson to my soul so that it won't keep on happening..the verse cont..in verse 35

وَمَا يُلَقَّاهَا إِلَّا الَّذِينَ صَبَرُوا وَمَا يُلَقَّاهَا إِلَّا ذُو حَظٍّ عَظِيمٍ

But none is granted it (the above quality) except those who are patient, and none is granted it except the owner of the great portion (of the happiness in the Hereafter i.e. Paradise and in this world of a high moral character)

O Allah i do love her, she's a friend of mine and don't wanna hurt her..O Allah please grants me the patience and love so i'll never be astray in the sea of hatred..as what is quoted further in Fussilat 41:36

وَإِمَّا يَنْزَغَنَّكَ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ نَزْغٌ فَاسْتَعِذْ بِاللَّهِ إِنَّهُ هُوَ السَّمِيعُ الْعَلِيمُ

And if an evil whisper from Shaitân (Satan) tries to turn you away (O Muhammad SAW) (from doing good, etc.), then seek refuge in Allâh. Verily, He is the All-Hearer, the All-Knower.

O Allah never turn my heart away......